OTM, I believe she did tell him alot of this already (just not in the same way). And all he did was get angry and throw it back in her face.
He knows she knows. His family knows. And so he's unsure of what she's going to do. That's the perfect position of control for PC. Think about it this way. The LBS is driving themselves crazy because they are always wondering what the WAS is doing. In this case, she has turned the tables. In her silence and short answers, he's actually been much more polite to her.
It's a fake sort of interest he has right now, because he wants to know what she knows. YOu know the script. If she says what she wants to above, he's going to say that the OW is just a friend, that they don't have a R, etc. With that knowledge is power.
She's in a war for her M. In war you don't let the enemy see your hand. You make them wonder, unsure of what your next move is going to be. After awhile, he'll be thinking that she's absolutlely pissed with him, and that's when she can come out and be totally nice to him which isn't what he expected. After awhile of that, she can cut him off again with silence and he'll wonder if she's mad again.
This push and pull of him is what will get him back. IMO.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.