back from the store...sheesh it looks like I was fishing for sympathy! I was having a pity party! blech! I don't have to be miserable if I don't want to be- it's all in the mind, right?
ok I searched the internet for success stories after separation and there were several. Many were on these 2 religious websites where the left behind spouse "kept the faith" and never gave up hope. They prayed and just waited. I am wondering if they were on religious websites because more religious people are opposed to divorce? KWIM? anyway, I was inspired because it seemed like it was just a matter of time. Some were 2-3 years! Some were after divorce! So it's not just the 25 stories here on DB! (lol- I bet there are more than 25)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004