Cause for alarm?

[OfficerInNeed]

Today was the day.

This morning when W left for work and arrived at work we had a descent exchange of text messages. I had asked W a question but she did not response to it.

W had doctor appt. today after work to get her arm checked out. W had txt me that she had arrived at the doctor. I had a feeling something was not right.

I txt W that I had errands to run and a few things to do. I left house to do those things. When I was out, W called me. W said that the doctor had seen her and referred her to go straight to another dr. that she might have a fracture. When W said this I expressed my concern and asked W if she wanted me to meet her at the doctor, she said "why?" in a calm tone and I replied "I am concerned, this is a bad situation and I want to be there for you." W replied "It's OK, it might not be anything, I could be there for a few minutes for all I know" so I did not go.

while W was waiting in doctor office we exchanged a few text messages non-r related.

I arrived at home, shortly after W called and told me what the outcome was and that she was on her way home. Turns out she has a sprain.

When W got home, she interacted with the dog. We had a brief exchange and then she said it....

She sat her purse down on the table and said, I got pulled to the manager's office today and said the managers name. this is how my W narrated what was said

Manager: This situation has to end the talking needs to stop

W: It already did

Manager: I spoke to the higher up and he said maybe it is best one of you two go to second shift in order to squash this.

- I wanted to say "he should be the one to go" but kept my mouth shut

W: From my understanding it is squashed we don't talk anymore. It was already decided we don't work together anymore.

Manager: Well it just needs to end, don't even look at one another. Let people move on to the next thing. People talk, I been there. Let this blow over

W: Understood and it is.

I am sure I did not get it exactly how the convo went but W said all this in such a calm tone and she down played it as if it were not big deal to her getting pulled in by the manager because according to my W the manager down played it. I am not sure if I should be worried...

I said nothing, I offered no opinion, I just gave head nods and maybe a "huh" or "hmm" or two. Soon as she finished saying what she had to say, I directed the focus to something else, I believe I started talking about the dog.

After we talked like we usually do. W was starting to upset me due to not meeting emotional needs, I remained calm and then walked up stairs. W followed me up stairs she laid in bed and went on laptop. She started to play a game on laptop and I joined in. During this time, I accidentally did something I should not had but something I use to always do, W gave me a dirty look and told me she would punch me in the face lol.

I told W and I seen her struggling to do something "Don't be too proud to ask for help. I don't want you to make your injury any worse. I don't mind helping you out" W simply relied "i'll be fine"

Shortly following W feel to sleep.



As a side not, I had spoke with a friend today who is her co-worker he said was in a good mood, this is before I learned she got pulled aside and I was wondering if anything did happen at work. friend of mine was nit aware she had got pulled aside.

Friend said W was in a good mood. W explained to him ho she hurt her arm (she told the true story). W mentioned to friend how she things people talk about other people at the work place and to watch out and said "like her over there, I know she has said something about me" friend said he did not offer a response. This is unlike my W to worry about what others say or even care...

Friend said at one point he was behind W and W did not know. Someone asked my W what OM had to say about her arm being in a sling and she replied "we don't talk anymore." She said this without knowing friend was near.