To be honest, this is what I find myself thinking:
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At the time, I didn't realize that H(W) was just there to save face, because (s)he was saying all the right things "I want to make this M work" etc.
I know it's mind reading and I must stop. I try not to think about it, and the closer it gets to Thurs., the calmer I become. I know it took some courage for her to agree to go after all this time. And, it came after I took Coach, Puppy, etc., advice on telling her I won't live in an open marriage...speech. It is a step in the right direction. Now, I must go with an open mind and put to use what I have learned here and in the other material I have read.
BTW, I have followed your thread and am sorry for the turn your sitch seems to be taking. There is nothing I can add to the great advice that you are getting. I do think of you and continue to pray for you and your kids. As I've said before, your strength and courage comes across loud and clear. You will be just fine, great even! (((FM)))
Thanks for filling me in on the MC process. The insight is very usefull. Hopefully, it will help. I know it can't hurt.
