I don't think they get it at all. I remember that right after he left us and left me to do everything by myself I had that conversation with my WH. His reply was "We all have our roles". Wow, I never thought that I would hear him say that to me. I guess he feels that because he is still there financially (I'm too) he is doing his share.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
