Almost ~ Stop allowing this. You gave a man a week to decide if he wants you or not? No ma'am. You say, "H, I will not live in an open marriage. It is disrespectful to me and a horrible model for our children. Will you end your affair now and be transparent with your cell phone, email and whereabouts to regain my trust?" If he says no, you have one response and one response only: "I will begin interviewing lawyers in the morning. Use this week to find a place, and if you don't pick up your belongings by the end of the weekend, I will store them in the garage for you until you can come for them."
Then stick by it.
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