Thank you, ShockedOne, for your suggestion. I told my husband earlier today that he needs to make a decision by the weekend on what his choice is going to be...it's me or her, and if it's me, then there is need for a lot of change. He got very angry with me, and said he's "done." I told him that is fine if that is his decision; I just need for a decision to be made and to start moving on with my life, either with him or without. I asked him when we are going to talk to the kids about splitting...that I needed to know if that was in his plan for this evening before my two oldest are home from school. He sent me a text not long after saying he can't talk to the kids about it tonight; he's not in the "right state of mind" (well, that's obvious)! Not sure where things will go from here, but I'm done talking with him about this. He needs to get his life together or get out. I've been down this road before. He doesn't have the guts to leave, but he isn't man enough to let the thrill of emailing with the OW go. Pray for him...he needs it.
