perhaps you're right, fig. none of this seems conscious, but perhaps I have simply become accustomed to finding the blessings. but whatever it is, I am humbled and amazed by it all.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012