Here is the email I think I should write. Please keep in mind that I am still trying to DB. I used to the the "aggressor" in the marriage and do everythign for him.
Hi WH,
Your clothes and computer are packed and sitting by the front door for you to take tomorrow.
I care about your health and will leave you on my insurance. Unfortunately, I am unable to help you with any legal services.
I committed to helping with the reunion and that has not changed. I will leave the UPS key for you on the counter to take tomorrow. I am still able to send confirmation emails, if needed.
I will be attending person and person's wedding.
I appreciate the offer to leave cash but that is not necessary. In several weeks my packcheck will transfer to a seperate account. I would also like to take over paying the bills and remove you from the joint billing account. Your paycheck would still go into the "joint checking account" and your bill/mortgage portion would transfer into the joint billing account. My paycheck will deposit into a seperate account. In terms of the credits cards in your name you can continue to pay those from your account.
