Destroying your family with an ugly divorce Reconciling and exploring rebuilding the marriage
THAT is the choice you are pushing and the one you want her to make... do NOT make this a choice between TWO MEN.. that makes the OM on EQUAL FOOTING to YOU.. he is NOT an equal here, YOU are the husband and family protector, the OM is a PREDATOR... Do NOT ROMANTICIZE this nonsense by telling her to choose between TWO MEN
She's choosing
HURTING A FAMILY HEALING A FAMILY
That is the choice youw ant to present her with... ok?