Good one pup

Also, KEN, this is NOT about your wife choosing

OM
YOU

That is NOT the idea you want to convey

This is a choice between

Destroying your family with an ugly divorce
Reconciling and exploring rebuilding the marriage

THAT is the choice you are pushing and the one you want her to make... do NOT make this a choice between TWO MEN.. that makes the OM on EQUAL FOOTING to YOU.. he is NOT an equal here, YOU are the husband and family protector, the OM is a PREDATOR... Do NOT ROMANTICIZE this nonsense by telling her to choose between TWO MEN

She's choosing

HURTING A FAMILY
HEALING A FAMILY

That is the choice youw ant to present her with... ok?