You guys - I really need your help answering an email the husband wrote me today. He wrote me another one last week but I never responded. See below.
"Hey, we should probably talk about a couple things. I never heard back from you on that other e-mail I sent. I was asking about my computer and also the phone situation. Has anything happend with either of those two things?
But there's other stuff we need to work out. First of all, I know we briefly talked about this last week but I would really encourage you to consider letting the two of us use a mediator. It's someone who will be on both of our sides to help sort everything out. I just think that it would be a nightmare situation for both of us if we got attorneys involved and started attacking one another. That's not what I want and I hope it's not what you want either. But I don't know if that's something that you could use through your free legal service. Which brings up something else...
I know you said you were going to but I need to know for sure whether or not you're going to drop me from your insurance/benefits plan. One reason is for the mediator and if I can use that service with you. If not I need to start making other plans. But also my work just switched insurance plans so there is open enrollment going on right now. I just need to know whether or not I should sign up for that.
Another thing is that I need to know if you still plan on being involved with the reunion at all. I know it's stressful right now and I don't want to deal with it either at this point but it's a commitment that I've made so I have to follow through with it. If you don't want to help that's fine but I just need to know. If not maybe I could get an extra key for your mailbox at UPS or if you just want to check it periodically that's fine too. But like I said either way just let me know. Also maybe you could still do the confirmation e-mails? I don't know... just throwing that out there.
Lastly we need to talk about person and person's wedding. I have no idea on what your plans are if you'd still like to go or not. I do, but I'm not really sure how something like this is handled. I've never really done this before so just tell me what you want to do and we can talk about it.
Oh and one last thing is that I was planning on stopping by the house tomorrow to get some things. I'm kind of running out of clothes so I have to pick up some more stuff. Please let me know if that's ok with you. I know you said to let you know so I just didn't want it to catch you off gaurd. I will try and leave some cash for you on the counter. I don't know if you need grocerys or anything like that. I know you said you needed a pair of tennis shoes so I just wanted you to be taken care of. I hope you're doing ok. I know this hasn't been easy for either of us but I think the sooner we hash this stuff out the better. So please try and get back to me as soon as you can on these things. Thanks."
I seriously DO NOT GET HIM! Why are you leaving me money? Leave me alone!
