1 She cheats 2 You expose it 3 She cheats again 4 You expose more 5 She cheats again 6 You get a separation agreement and ask her to take her affair out of the family home 7 She cheats again 8 You expose AND pack her bags 9 She cheats again 10 You get a lawyer
You see here there is no talking, there is just action based on her choices... stop the negotiation, she's just going to
Promise you she will stop, but she will go underground instead
She makes a commitment to stop You monitor for a week She cheats again You ACT