I don't see that the statement that "63% of women would rather read than have sex with their husbands" means that the other 37% are having all the sex. Rather, I'd assume that many (not all, I'm sure) of the 63% are actually having rather boring, far from earth-shattering sex, and haven't a clue how to improve their sex lives. The survey covers young women of 18, exhausted mothers, and women up to the age of 50, yet developing the self-knowledge necessary for the emotional connection which leads to a truly satisfying physical connection generally comes only with maturity.

Leading and experienced sex therapist David Schnarch points out that the Kinsey report indicated that "women are more erotically inclined than men." He adds, "More men are looking to 'just get laid' than there are women who want to be 'scored.' But lots of women want to 'really get it on.' Many of them are married. And they'd give their hearts (and respect) to their husband if he'd DO her--and let himself be DONE." So, there's a bit of counterbalance to all the "depressing" stats above.