The problem that I see with my W is she doesn't consider texting her boss about her problems an affair. It lasted for about a month and even though she continuously tells me it was nothing like that, it's hard to believe.

She has shown me pics of him on FB. She laughs about his looks and how she is shocked that I would think she would be attracted to someone like that. The bottom line is that they had a connection and she felt that she needed to confide in him.

Anyway, I'm going to take all this feedback and be the attractive, fun, energetic H. I'll see where that takes me and hopefully she will see a real change in myself.

I'm still checking to see if there is OM or OM2, etc....


M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA