New to this Community seeking advice

[MichelleLT]

Skype is free. If you haven't used it, FYI, you just need a computer on each end and a webcam for each. You should try and set up regular chats with the boys. I'm sure they would love it, and it might have the side effect of letting her "see" you more.

Handle it calmly, but this is not something you should back down on. Time with your kids is important and you need to be part of their lives.

Any luck on possibly finding a job where you can move closer to them?