Can it be...a MLC??

[ericmsant2]

Still
I am sorry but I felt the need to post to you again. I feel for you dude _ I really do. I have been where you are at. As Jack pointed out...I really want to help you NOT touch the damn stove.

Do you know what I mean? Let me help?

You Afraid of/that…

…that you are losing your W. Sorry to say…she is already gone. Does that mean gone forever? Who knows, only she does.

….That you may have to accept that you can’t talk your way out of this one. Yep..no talking..no reasoning. The spin will not work this time.

…..You’ve finally F-up enough that this may really be over.

…..of what the children going to think.

….that for the first time you may really need to look at your role in this

….that financially you may not be able to make it…

…that you may get screwed in this process.

…that you may be alone…..

All of that fear…well that sh*t is something that YOU will need to deal with. That’s right…I’m not gonna pus*y foot around this. So why the hel* am I posting to you….Cause I want to help you avoid the pain. I want your M to survive. The only way this will happen is if you really…and I mean really….stop trying.

Okay now your gonna say your not trying... Yes you are! YOu are trying to impose YOUR will on her. Yeah I know...but you love her...I get that...If you love her than let her go. Love her enough to give her the space that she wants. That my friend is love. Does that mean that you lie down and take it in the.... NO! It means that you let her go. That you become what you always wanted to be. AND YOU DO THIS FOR YOU.

Mach’s post was spot on! Stop f*cking trying.

You buddy are gonna F this up if you do not give up. Yep…give the f-up.

Look man…let me ask you a serious question….take the kids out of the equation…take the financial stuff out of the equation. Would you want to be with your W right now? Would you feel comfortable sleeping in the basement?

DO you want her back? I think you do? Do you really know if you do? What if she was sick and on her death bed? What would you do?

Feel free to go bounce around other web sites trying to find the magic pill that will “turn her around” – guess what…maybe you find something…maybe it works for a season…

I don’t know about YOU my friend…I want someone that wants me…not “needs me”…wants me.. I want someone that loves me for Me. Why - cause I have become what I always wanted. Guess what...I am one hell of a DAD...know this...YOU WILL TO...if you let go.

Finally – READ MACH post again…read it again and again…

God Bless,
Eric