Well I was going to recommend that you get and read Divorce Remedy IMMEDIATELY, but you've already done that...good! It'll prevent you from doing what I did and making ALL the wrong moves in the beginning. Stick with what it says, remember what you've read....be patient, very patient. I was told this same advice, and although there are times when it doesn't feel like the right thing to do - it is. He is the one who wants out, so let him make the moves. Let him make the mistakes. YOU be stronger than you ever have in your life and if you need to break down and cry, don't do it on front of him. Leave the room and come back if you have to, but hold it together. Yes your mind will race like crazy but don't make any moves or decisions based on your emotions! Think before you speak. Read the book again if you have to but FOLLOW IT! Good luck to you :-)
oh yeah, another good website and forum is 'talkaboutmarriage' between that one and this one, you'll need no others!