My wife called me at work this morning and was upset about the talk we had lastnight. She felt like I was accusing her of having OM and she says there is nobody. She deleted her FB page and said she doesn't need it and was tired of me monitoring her.
I would have responded "I'm sorry you feel that way. I certainly don't want to control you. I'm only telling you what I need in order to feel safe in the marriage again, considering the affair you already had, previously. This is what I need from my wife. If you don't feel you can provide that, I understand, and I appreciate your honesty. I guess I have some decisions to make."
