That's not how forgiveness works, you forgive for yourself. Do your homework here. Putting conditions on things means you have expectations that are unwritten. Use MC to express how you truly feel to your wife. You can handle it.
Coach, I know what you mean. I have to forgive for myself and for me to be able to heal. I guess I'm still looking for that little bit of regret from her. Isn't going to happen right now. Maybe her agreeing to go is a sign.
I hope we can both use MC to express how we both feel. It goes both ways, I know that. We need help, right now, to express it to each other.
Thanks, once again, for reminding me to keep my eye on the big picture.
