when i have no goal, my mind wanders aimlessly and i can't focus. i start acting, talking, and behaving crazy. i begin to call and tell people about my crazy ideas.
Really???? Who knew.
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i wish someone would spell out a plan for me.
Make three dozen cupcakes. Think win-win. What will help you, help you possibly reconcile or make you stronger, wiser and better for the future?
One dozen cupcakes are for you.
Take another dozen to work or give to your neighbors.
The last dozen is for your husband. This is a reason to make contact with no expectations.
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as randy pausch said .. brick walls were put into place to let you know how badly you want something.
What is the "wall" you speak of? What is it really made of? Two pains in life - the pain of regret or the pain of discipline. You choose.
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is this an emotional decision?
You are pure emotion right now. How does one get the emotions under control? Do you like being in this state of being? You can't DO until you BE, then you can HAVE.
Who else wants some cupcakes?
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
