My wife called me at work this morning and was upset about the talk we had lastnight. She felt like I was accusing her of having OM and she says there is nobody. She deleted her FB page and said she doesn't need it and was tired of me monitoring her.
Deleting her FB page is her decision. Leave it alone. She made a decision about doing that - for whatever reason - and she will feel the way she feels about it. Not your problem to fix.
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The conversation got heated and she started getting angry. She said that she will not be told what to do. She also said that she wants to work on the marriage for our son's sake. She mentioned again that she isn't in love with me and worries that it won't come back.
She only said what I believe many WAWs think - that the feelings of love will not return. I thought it. What I learned is that Love is what you do - not what you feel. My H attracted me back to him, and I wanted to love (action verb) him. But I do remember fearing that I would stay numb. It takes time. So when she says that kind of thing, you don't need to jump in there and tend to it. Just understand. Don't fix. Keep being an attractive man. Confident. Strong. You know what you want - even if she doesn't yet.
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