whatdidido has changed to whatamigoingtodo

[saffie]

Allen,

I feel that I am baiting you with this question.....and honestly I am not......I am truly curious. You said earlier on this thread about you not having sex with your W since reconciliation because you didn't feel like it, and I asked you about that. You said you would reply and so far you haven't.

I just wondered, if your W had an A.....and I don't know your history but am guessing it was a PA......and now you are refusing to have sex with her- don't you worry she will stray again?

Is your M now harmonious? I am truly curious as I personally feel that that physical closeness is such an important part of my M,( not the most important part but still an important part).

I know that you busted the A, but is that where it ends?

I am sorry if I am getting too personal, It's just I feel it's confusing. Also I think it is useful for folks to have a handle on the circumstances of a person advising them as it helps them see 'where that person is coming from'.