Trying to shorten, probably tommorrow night, couldnt tonight, she has appt by his house, so I dont wat her in his arms within hours of me hitting her with this
"This is our home, and our family, we built this together, and it is ours together. I want to be in a committed, honest, loving and fun relationship with you. This can not happen as long as you are in an emotional or a physical affair, with OM, or any other man. It disrespects myself, our vows, our family, and our faith. This marriage doesn’t have room for three people.
D1 and D2 deserve an honest, stable, and loving environment which we provide them. A loving committed mother, wife, and friend will always be welcome in our children’s home.
If you want a fun life full of love with me and our girls, our marriage, and our friends, you will need to end all contact with him, forever.
If you put the affair , and it‘s unholy destruction, above the needs of our family, and continue causing damage and confusion to our children, and marriage, I can not support you.
You need to be aware that the affair. it's participants, and the pain and drama that it causes are never welcome in our home."
I’m a very patient man, but this needs to be resolved soon.
PS - Is this a bad use of 'unholy'
Still way too wordy. You're trying to "teach" her. You can't teach an adulteress.
