I'm just scared all the time.

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Oh there are other reasons I'm sure. And I certainly wasn't intentionally either of those things.

I can't move back right now. I suppose I believe I'm showing sacrifice for her happiness.

Not attractive AT ALL. No strength. No decisiveness. No control. This is not attractive to a woman - sorry, but it is not.

I do know if I go into our home against her wishes, those papers will be filed.

You are scared of your wife. Also not attractive.

You need to read Robx's posts, read Coach's thread and some others. Your strategy is not going to attract your W to you. She may be not be having an A, but she is surely a cake-eater. She gets you coming over to help with the car and kids and this and that, then ~~~ she gets to tell you when to leave. And you go. B/c you are scared she will file D papers.

Try standing up to her and see what happens. Try telling her "W, I have decided that I am moving back into my house b/c it is mine, too, and I need to be here so I can properly father my children." Then do it. Isn't that the right thing to do - shouldn't a father be with his children? Yes. So do what is right.

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