You have to look at it the same as when you only had one, another one didn't change things so much and the same with the third. The 4th did change things because while she was an easy baby she had a difficult toddlerhood.
I always try to let the kids know that someday, when I am not here you will have each other. To lean on, to laugh with and to cry with and that seems to have helped them get closer. The boys are close, the girls are close and both girls adore big brother number 2. He is their protector and biggest tormentor.
So I guess what I am trying to say is that they each help each other out and we are muddling through.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Jeg stiller mig selv derude og nu jeg hader at jeg gjorde. Hoppe til konklusioner, men nogle mennesker gør det så let at. Masser af græde og forbandelse i dansk. Jeg er så gal på mig selv lige nu. Grædende nogle flere. Yeah, lige nu, jeg hader mænd! Takker Gud jeg kan tale et andet sprog... jeg bare ikke altid stave.
Thanks for letting me vent. Just not ready to say it in English yet.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
You are right, you are not. Just an overall feeling last night that I may be completely wrong about. I hate that because of what I have been through, I see the worst when there isn't anything there.
Du blev utrolig sød til fik til ulejlighed at oversætte min aftræk. Siger meget om dig som person. Mange tak.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory