My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[hoosiermama]

thank you. believe me, I have been at the point when I thought exactly what Ellie was saying. however, with real conversation (and not my own projection), I see a real focus on "putting yourself out there" and not on self-medicating and running from feelings by distracting oneself. and it was very clear: go out, do fun things; not saying get married or sleep with people, just have fun and you'll learn about yourself.

and I -almost- trust my instincts too.