We are physically separated - 4 hrs flight away. It was his suggestion and he persisted for 3 months. I finally gave in as it was just hurting so much to hear him ask for separation again and again when i was doing all i can to save our marriage. I tried going out more without him and trying not to ask for confirmation about our m.
I believe his EA would have started about 6 mths before our separation, even though i didn't noticed it then.
I believe they are not having a PA as my husband were still showing signs of physical attraction to me - and we slept together when i visited him a few weeks ago. But he told me the next day he still want us to be separated.
I believed the OW because it matched what my husband told me about her - that she still loves her husbanad and wants us to be able to reconcile. I think my problem is that my husband seems to think that because he has feelings for her, our marriage is doomed.
M 39 H 41 T9 M6 EA found Dec 09 Separated Apr to Jun 10 Currently in house separation
