Ah thanks.... not if my hair keeps dropping out, lol! So heres is the 3 pictures that inspired my dress design! But not as floaty (cos of the stiffer silk):

This basic idea, with a sash and corsage with a little short sleved lace bolero
http://www.jacasei.com.br/artigos/fotos/cymbeline-bridal/014-cy-doa.jpg

Strapless with a belt like this and this type of skirt with organza waves:
http://www.robe-et-soiree.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/robe-de-mariee-alarie-emilie-costa.jpg

But with only 4 or 5 folds like this (but in silk organza):
http://www.robedelamariee.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/dawa-robe-de-mariee-2010-cymbeline.jpg

So um.... not sure what its going to end up looking like !!
I just called the seamstress about my worries, but she is on holiday for 2 weeks !! Oh dear...