spouse pining for someone who's unavailable...

[xin]

Does anyone has any experience with a WAS whose had an EA that did not develope into PA but still pining for that person?

I have been separated from my husband for about 2 mths and my husband is still pining for OW and would not consider reconciling with me.

The OW is married and she claimed that she is only a friend to my husband. My husband has also told me that she does not want to leave her husband for him. But as colleagues, they see each other everyday and my husband said they have kissed once when she came to our home to see him. But I know they didn't have a PA. After speaking to the OW, I feel that i can trust her when she agreed to reduce contact with my husband. I speak to my husband almost everyday and he does not seem to be going out or feeling that happy - which would be signs that he is having a PA,

My husband got angry with me when i suggested that I would be moving back into the same city soon so that we can see each other sometime. I feel this is the right thing to do, but is it really possible to save our marriage when he is in such a state of mind?