I am starting to get frustrated. I know I need to remain patient.
We have been living our normal lives, doing things around the house. visiting family over the weekend. But I still do not know where we stand, does he still have 1 foot out the door ? He wanted to tell the Kids we were divorcing when school was out, that is in one week.

I just hate the not knowing, I don't want to ask because it will force his hand, although I have jokingly mentioned the fact I don't know what he is thinking, He has not given me any verbal feedback.

I just need strength right now to make it through the next cople of days. Should I just come out and ask him straight out if he is still planning on divorce?


Me:43
H:43
T:20 YRS
M:15 YRS
Bomb: 6/9/08
Bomb#2 7/6/10
Served with papers at work 7/13/10
DD:14, DD:11