just a quick update, ex still hasnt contacted me due to the fact he as found out I do his old aunts shopping for her, his loss I am doing nothing wrong, childish of him I think, ex has seen son twice this week although son did ring me when i was out on saturday night to say dad was been an ass on the phone because he wanted him to go driving and then back to theirs for dinner, son didnt want to go to dinner and dad was getting annoyed and saying why why why dont you want to come, son as also told me that since he as started saying no to dad that dad thinks it is me that is controlling him again. so back to the same old story everything is my fault, ah well leave him be its his grave he is digging. also heard that wifey and ex had an argument in the pub and it resulted in him walking out of the pub and leaving her in there on her own, this was around the same time he was phoning son and kicking off, obviously the drink runs his life, oh and he is also out of a job yet again, this is the eigth since he left us, totally all unlike the man I knew, anyhows onwards and upwards off we go, xxx
