Judging by the amount of weight my WH has lost, his body has been pulling at his guilt strings alright!

Sorry NM, I meant that WH has to drag himself out the door when he comes and visits the baby... clearly reluctant to leave her. However I think that has no bearing on his plans to leave the country at some stage! So, no, can't be sure what is happening on that front yet.

Have to admit, though I love and miss him, I often wish him gone. The anticpation/stress around his visits got to me yesterday and today.