I don't think he's sleeping around, and I don't think he's encouraging me to do so either; it's honestly more about socializing, getting out there, dinner-and-a-movie kind of stuff. really.
Ellie offers good warnings. But I believe you are centered, measured, and perceptive and purposefully slow in your movement here. I trust your instincts.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac