Can it be...a MLC??

[Truegritter]

I just wish I could have a minute inside her head to figure out what is going on.

This is not where YOU need to be- inside HER head.

That is the reason for detachment.

So you stop going up and down with this.

Also

I want to save my M. Wife wants D., but has not filed. Wants everything quiet and us to work on it together. She is big on perception of other folks

What do you REALLY want? You have freedom right now because W wants D.

The door is open my friend do YOU want to run through it?

Do you want to give her that power?

Do you want the freedom to escape?

Look this is tough stuff my friend

You are going to have to look at things differently than you have ever imagined IF...

YOU want this.

In the end you will have to deal with this.

It is YOUR choice whether you do it on your terms or someone elses.

There are no excuses here except the ones YOU allow.