Yes Mila, you are right I don't think jealousy is attractive, but there is nothing wrong with wanting to look your best and maybe a little sexy too. It just makes me feel good and confident.
I like to look at it putting my best foot forward regardless of my sitch. Do I want to just throw on some sweat pants when I run to the grocery store or do I want to present myself in a better light.
Like today I go the store in black shorts, hot pink top, black jacket, hair fixed and wouldn't you know I bumped into an old friend and he said wow Glam you look awesome. Now that sure helped my self esteem.
Remember this journey is about us too. With all the negatives and discouragement being thrown at us, we need to take time for ourselves too. Well this is just one way that I do that.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"