I'm just scared all the time.

[MrBond]

When you're looking at her, you can't be looking at her with sad, puppy dog eyes. Instead you need to be confident and assertive.

Does she limit of days you can see them? If not, go as often as possible. Start of slow. But then increase the visits. Then cut back on them a little to show her as if you have a busy life.

First thing is to stop feeling afraid.