I think you need to somehow spend time with her. Can you swing a transfer? I think you need to be physically by her so that she can see the changes. 2 years is a long time to be so far physically separated from each other. Plus your boys need you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.