I see Jack's point but Glam & dudess "girls just wanna have fun" right?
I did read somewhere that it's a wrong strategy to try to make WAH guys jealous...apparently it may backfire, they are not as forgiving as girls...Maybe jack has a point...it's coming from a guy...something to think about.
BTW I don't think it would make any difference if I walked around naked while he is into the OW. But I agree...I want to be as attractive and sexy as I can, without playing games. I actually think that it is for me, to boost my self esteem after being rejected so brutally. It feels good to see other guys looking (at my age)...not that I'm going to act on it (yet).
GAG - thanks for the coupon tip and I've always been "handy" and took over many maintenance things around the house throughout our marriage. Anything from tiling, painting, staining, renovation work, to repairing toilets and changing light bulbs. The only thing that I don't mess with is electricity...maybe something to learn as well. H was handy, but not motivated...had to nag him into doing stuff...so what I could I did myself.
Kissak, once I'm sure that I can handle having him around I don't mind if H comes and does some yard work. I'm like you I won't ask him for help, I will rather pay someone or do it myself.
Today's news:
Wanted to plan my weekend so I asked D about this weekend trip that H is taking her on. She said that they are going to some dude ranch. That is interesting because I cc'd WH an email where I was confirming my dude ranch trip (only cc'd him because he was dealing with the people until now). He must be so mad that he is not going, that he quickly arranged to take D to one this weekend.
D doesn't want to go. She said "he is making me, he said we are going and that's that, didn't ask for my opinion and if I tell him that really don't want too he is going to be mad at me". I said it's going to be good to spend some time together, you must miss him. D replied "I don't miss him at all"...all this in a very defiant tone of voice. So I hope that she will get over it, otherwise he is going to have one miserable weekend with peeved-off teenager.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
