I just read the letter. I am hysterically crying. As someone who is new to the boards and in my first trimester, I am so moved by your post. I pray your H wakes up. You deserve the world!

This is what hurts me the most and shocks me to my core:
"He didn't love me now when I needed him the most. He never respected me enough to say hey what's wrong with me, she is a decent person and deserves better. "

M:27 H: 33
M:10/07
T:9 yrs
H moves away for drug recovery: 3/2010
ILYBINILWY & wants D:5/02/10
Confirmed OW:5/21
Told MIL:5/25(only concerned about H's recovery)
Told FIL:5/28(will speak to him)