RWAS, I'm glad to see that you're still doing the work . I love FG's random smile exercise. It's so powerful because when you live with a depressed H, it can undermine your sense that you can make people feel good and be a positive influence. A depressed spouse becomes a funhouse mirror where the only reflection you see of yourself is a distorted one.
Sorry, but I don't recall if you've discussed LLs in your thread? Do you know yours? Do you know your husband's?
Hang in there!
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
. I love FG's random smile exercise. It's so powerful because when you live with a depressed H, it can undermine your sense that you can make people feel good and be a positive influence. A depressed spouse becomes a funhouse mirror where the only reflection you see of yourself is a distorted one. 
