still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

Thanks to SeeingRed's thread, Now I am thinking of the Newton Laws of Motion (I copied and pasted from a middle school webpage!):

law #1: a body at rest tends to stay at rest; a body in motion, tends to stay in motion (unless acted upon by an unbalanced force)

So this applies to my sitch as- when I allowed the cake eating nothing changed for the A because it was "more of the same."


law#2: Acceleration is produced when a force acts on a mass. The greater the mass (of the object being accelerated) the greater the amount of force needed (to accelerate the object).


Everyone unconsiously knows the Second Law. Everyone knows that heavier objects require more force to move the same distance as lighter objects.

lol- okay SO if WH is the "heavier object" then one would say he needs a lot of force to move from his position. All along,I have not applied force (because I have not applied pressure). Now, by my change in visitation, he is with her MORE so he is exposed to HER FORCE more than he was when he was visiting over here! Hmm...hopefully she will force him to face the decision to D and he will realize he doesn't want it! Maybe this is happening currently although slowly...very slowly!


law#3: For every action ther is an equal and opposite re-action.
This means that for every force there is a reaction force that is equal in size, but opposite in direction. That is to say that whenever an object pushes another object it gets pushed back in the opposite direction equally hard.

Aha- I have "pushed him away" so he WILL return to me due to this law of physics! Of course! And OW is pulling him toward her so he will catapult in the opposite direction, to me! Why didn't I just trust the science all along?