"But he doesn't care enough to do anything about it".

Did he say anything to that affect, BD?

Follow through with what you wrote. Things will need to be readjusted after the birth cos you can't stop him from seeing your baby, can you?

I was very moved by your post..and it's not against DBing rules to sign divorce papers. Sometimes it's the best thing to do - for you first, and then for the relationship. Walking Away is avocated time and time again by the vets.

"He didn't love me now when I needed him the most. He never respected me enough to say hey what's wrong with me, she is a decent person and deserves better. "

I will never, ever understand this either....

You're an amazing person and you are going to be fine.

(((BD))))


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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