IF in the course of GALing a person decides to dress up that is great and good for them.
If in the course of GALing they lose track of Getting aLife and dress up so that they did it to provoke a reaction from their spouse, then it is failing the idea of GALing and it is a trick to get a reaction out of the spouse.
If the spouse comes back for no better reason than territorial pissing or jealousy without having come through their MLC then their going to jet back into the tunnel.
If the MLCer thinks that the LBSer is screwing around on them interested in someone else I think it justifies some of their poor choices in their MLC heads.
But, thats just my take on it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
