I feel like I know everything about it and he knows nothing.
Hey, you won't be the first mom who thinks this!! And actually, moms ARE equipped to be able to do it all! As you know, I "let" WH do a lot but there were plenty of times when I slipped and said "watch out!" or "I think that is too much food." or "don't let him cry that long!" it was tough to let him learn on his own...but it also built his confidence because when he "succeeded" with calming S or getting him to smile or picked out a cute outfit he was so pleased with himself.
I was nice enough to compliment him on doing a great job of swaddling or playing with S or comforting him etc. although not nearly as much as if we were still together!
How nice that you do it all as to not inconvenience others! When I am controlling, I tend to do it because I feel like I can't rely on others- like they will flake and not show up.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
