MWG, What do you honestly think is going to happen here? I think you are a nice person, but I think you need to make some changes when it comes to him. I mean, your kids have told you they don't want him back over there, he has shown no interest or desire to change anything. I think its pathetic that he stays married to you and lives with her. I guess he does it because he can. Why do you stay married to someone when your own kids don't want him around? I can't take away your commitment and willingness to make things work, but its just not going to. He isn't going to come back unless he has nowhere else to go, he has demonstrated that for years and its sad that you are wasting your life on someone like that. Being a martor doesn't bring you happiness. Sorry if it this makes you mad, but this guy is a loser and you need to get rid of him.
