I got the revised final dec. in my email today and now I feel sick. It looks like we will sign it this we
ek after I talk to my lawyer. I want to say something to my stbxw before I sign it but then I think maybe I should be strong and just agree with it. Sign it with a smile and let it die. I don't know what to do at this point I guess that is why I am writing on here right now-looking for suggestions?

Let's take a vote!
1. Say nothing to stbxw and just sign the final dec.

2. Go visit stbxw and let her know that I do not want a divorce but if that is what she needs then I will sign.




What do you guys think?


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final