I'm just scared all the time.

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still remains: she has had the paperwork for 2 months and no action has been taken since I left. I generally stay over there at least 2-3 nights a week, every week since I left. I see my kids about 1/2 the week every week so far. I don't want the situation to get worse than it is. And I'm sure if I try to move back in, it will get worse. Fast.

I think you need coach, greek and puppy type folks now that we have more info here.

Things were probably getting much worse because you couldn't leave each other alone (especially if you were asking about the M, divorce, and other such topics).

You need to give us more info and get some better advice.

And good luck on your job search!