sorry that you have to be here. there are some awesome ppl on this board, though, and looks like some have already come your way.
just to let you know, your sitch doesn't sound that "unfitted" in the DB world...many of us are going through similar stuff (even if it looks diff't): spouse not connected, walking on eggshells, limboland, moodiness (from both sides!), control issues, feeling like poop, etc. also, i hear you on not knowing whether it's MLC or WAS (i'm still in that boat!) but i think most say it doesn't really matter.
i also think it's great you're talking to a coach. they are really able to tailor a game plan that works for your sitch. and of course the support network here is great.
