I'm for you going home, as well. Stay in the spare bedroom. If you're paying for the home, you have every legal right to be there, and the KIDS deserve to have you there, no matter who is the better parent. If she fails to see that, then she certainly is no better than you.
I'd like to reiterate my previous post, as well, and suggest you rule out other possibilities besides "laziness" and "irresponsibility." You seem like a thoughtful person, and thoughtful people are not, generally, intentionally those things.
Oh there are other reasons I'm sure. And I certainly wasn't intentionally either of those things.
I can't move back right now. I suppose I believe I'm showing sacrifice for her happiness. Don't really believe that, but thats hard to deny either. I do know if I go into our home against her wishes, those papers will be filed. I'm not ready to face up to that. Maybe I'm hoping she will come to her senses. I'm not sure this is all about me. Some of her complaints are about things that happened 4 or 5 years ago. We don't even live in the same town anymore, much less the same circumstances. I just don't know.
M-34 W-31 2 S,11&11 1 D, 6 T 13 YEARS M 12 YEARS ILYBINILWY OCT. 2009 We are too close. All we see are smears of paint. The Lord sees the masterpiece He is painting.
