What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[newmama]

I would like for him to learn about baby care. I really do. That may be something that I can show him when she's actually here in our first visit.

So I guess I don't have any plans to ask him for anything unless some kind of issue comes up that he could fix. . . I really got it all taken care of. . .

On the one hand, it is great that you feel on top of it because it is better to assume you will be a single mom (IMO) so you can deal with it. But....

That surprises me because I think that appreciation is the trick! So interesting.

Unfortunately, you won't be able to test this out unless you can LET him help you after the baby is born...with regular stuff- not just things you haven't done or don't know how to do! Of course it is all about your boundaries, too...tricky stuff!